How to Please a BBW on a First Date
We’re all used to seeing tabloid headlines about celebrities who seem to be battling with their weight. Or magazines that are championing the latest fad diets. Women considered plus-sized often feel self-conscious. But single guys are far more likely to be drawn to fuller-figured females than slender women who seem unduly obsessed with the food they eat. Or don’t eat! If you prefer curvy to skinny, there are so many opportunities, especially online. Here we’ll take a deeper dive into the fabulous world of virtual BBW dating, as well as offer advice about pleasing a new partner.
What to know about dating a chubby woman
The first aspect of fat dating to be aware of is the wonderful variety of outlets where you can connect with these beauties. The BBW community is thriving in the digital environment, and a review site will allow you to check out the various websites and apps dedicated to matching single men with larger ladies. Here you can gain an excellent impression of the delights that would be awaiting you if you were to sign up to a particular site. The reviews will discuss attributes like navigability, the advanced matching tools available for premium members, and the monthly subscriptions costs should you choose to upgrade. Once you’ve pored over this information, you can follow the relevant link and arrive at the home page. Complete the straightforward registration form, outline the type of BBW you’re looking for, then start flirting via the discreet communication channel!
Not a word about being overweight
It is possible to discuss weight without it becoming any sort of issue. Never draw attention to the fact she might be struggling to get into a particular item of clothing – unless you have reached a stage in your relationship where you could get away with making light of the awkward situation with a jokey aside. But your priority should always be making her feel good about herself. If you’re getting ready for a night out and she’s using you as a sounding board while trying on potential outfits, each time she parades before you, give appropriate signals. Tell her how much she suits a particular outfit. If she chooses to wear something a little daring, such as a bustier that highlights her voluptuous curves, then let her know how much this turns you on.
Don’t think of it as a fetish
Some males do get turned on by the thought of overweight women, especially those who have the confidence to wear tight-fitting dresses to accentuate their contours. This can be taken to extremes in the fetish or BDSM community, where certain individuals love the idea of large ladies wearing PVC or leather costumes. It can add extra layers of excitement for participants keen on interacting with a dominatrix. But in most cases, it would be a mistake to try and fetishize a BBW. This would give the impression you are only after her for one reason – because she has an ‘unusual’ physique that you are keen to exploit for selfish reasons. Instead, play it cool. Her large size is part of who she is, and in many cases, this will be complemented by a larger-than-life personality.
Let her know how much her curves appeal to you, but the only time you should ever broach the subject of her figure in any other way might be in the context of weight as a health issue. So you could discuss ways to pay attention to excess fat when it might affect her wellbeing. This still has to be treated with great sensitivity as she will no doubt be aware of the correlation between weight and a healthy heart and won’t need you preaching to her! But if you develop a strong enough bond, you should feel confident about discussing anything. Revealing you are concerned that she remains healthy will bring you closer.
Make her feel good
It’s so important to impress on your partner that her weight is not an issue. There’s every chance she will have been subjected to everything from sideways glances to negative remarks. So make sure you give her lots of compliments. When you walk into a date location arm-in-arm, bask in the attention you receive from other guys, their eyes roving over that fine booty! Whisper sweet nothings, and be tactile as you sit together waiting for the waiter to bring the menu.
If you take our advice on board, you’ll enjoy a thriving partnership with a large, beautiful woman, from your initial interactions on the BBW dating service to your first date onwards. Just keep basking in the jealousy of the other dudes in the restaurant or café observing you and your loved one tucking into fabulous banquets while their partner nibbles on a salad!
How to Please a BBW on a First Date